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 There were hurricanes and  
 earthquakes  and  rainstorms  
 but somehow, for  
 the celebration of Rosh Hashanah  
 last week, the sun shone brilliantly  
 as I made my way to the synagogue. 
  The holiday is the beginning  
 of the Jewish New Year, with  
 worshippers  asking  for  forgiveness  
 for their sins and to be written  
 in the Book of Life . 
 When I was a little girl, I went  
 to my shul with my mom and  
 dad for the New Year’s services.  
 My father wore a tallis, which  
 is a prayer shawl, and I remember  
 how I would sit for hours,  
 and he kindly let me braid its  
 silky strings as I listened to the  
 prayers and awe-inspiring music.  
 To this day, I feel the power  
 of the prayers and the fervent  
 praying  and  familiar  embracing  
 music. It's a time for family,  
 and this year I got to sit with my  
 daughter Samantha, who knows  
 I like to sit up close because then  
 I don't feel the immensity of the  
 4,000 people who are also praying  
 with me.  
 Temple  Sinai  is  the  largest  
 reform congregation on Long  
 Island and when I'm sitting in  
 the front, I cherish the intimacy  
 with the rabbi and the cantor  
 and the choir. I feel more connected  
 to them sitting up front  
 and hearing their words, prayers  
 and songs. 
 Since my grandchildren pop  
 in and out of the service, they sit  
 in the back so they can anonymously  
 disappear and reappear.  
 I hope they heard the blast of  
 the shofar (a ram’s horn), my  
 favorite part of the service. 
 For me, it's reflective time, an  
 opportunity for staying in the  
 moment to think about my life,  
 both the good moments and the  
 challenging ones, and to think  
 of my path.  
 Here's one of my favorite  
 prayers, taking me into Yom  
 Kippur where I repeatedly ask for  
 forgiveness. My rabbi makes me  
 feel like I can see the book slowly  
 closing and my fervent prayers  
 asking to be written in the book  
 of life, repeating my plea over and  
 over again throughout the day.   
 The prayer is actually the poem  
 “Unetaneh Tokef,” a “wake-up  
 call” of sorts. It states:  
 On Rosh HaShanah this  
 is written; on Yom Kippur  
 this is sealed: 
 How many will pass away  
 from this world, how many  
 will be born into it; 
 who will live and who will  
 die; 
 who will reach the ripeness  
 of age, 
 who will be taken before  
 their time; 
 who by fire and who by  
 water; 
 who by war and who by  
 beast; 
 who by famine and who by  
 drought; 
 who by earthquake and  
 who by plague; 
 who by strangling and who  
 by stoning; 
 who will rest and who will  
 wander; 
 who will be tranquil and  
 who will be troubled; 
 who will be calm and who  
 tormented; 
 who will live in poverty and  
 who in wealth; 
 who will be humbled and  
 who exalted…. 
 I  like  what  one  commentator  
 wrote about Rosh Hashanah  
 and Yom Kippur, that they "take  
 care of the small, almost invisible  
 choices of our lives. Rosh  
 Hashanah reflects on our mission  
 in life and Yom Kippur is  
 about the details that will get us  
 where we want to go and inspire  
 our success.”   
 The other wonder of the holiday  
 is  being  together  with  
 all  my  children  and  grandchildren. 
  On Saturday of Yom  
 Kippur,  there  is  fasting  from  
 Friday  night  to  sundown  on  
 Saturday.  That  is  the  day  of  
 my  most  heartfelt  prayers  to  
 be  asking  to  be  written  in  the  
 Book  of  Life.  The  culmination  
 of  Yom  Kippur,  is  when  
 the family gathers for a “break  
 the  fast”  celebration,  a  wonderful  
 time  to  cherish  with  
 loved ones. 
 May all of you reading this  
 pray for yourselves, your families  
 and those families who lost  
 so much in the horrible hurricanes  
 and the Mexico earthquake. 
  May the new year be a  
 better one for all. 
 One great debut  
 Madison Frankel of Little Neck and Roslyn was awarded  
 high point rider for the day she made her Interscholastic  
 Equestrian Association (IEA) debut at Sagamore Hill Stables in  
 Huntington,  winning both Future Novice over fence class and  
 flat. Sagamore Hill Stables and Coaches Lisa Kaplan, Omri Adut  
 and Jen helped her succeed.